Matters Of Preference: Three Totally Different Things The
Prophet Combines
Islamic Perspectives - Muslim Journals
Arab News
& Information - By Adil Salahi
Everyone of us dislikes certain things and likes
others. Preferences in such matters are very much
personal. They are often inexplicable. However, we may
all share in a particular area but differ in our
preferences of its details. All of us, for example,
like good smells and feel irritated by bad ones. Yet
some of us tolerate bad smells, or certain types of
them, more than others. The Prophet (peace be upon
him) disliked all bad smells. He, therefore, was keen
that he would have a good smell at all times. He kept
some perfumes at home and he often used them. Needless
to say, the perfumes he used were mostly natural and
simple ones. They were not expensive like the products
of today’s industry. Indeed the Prophet is quoted to
have said: “The three things I favor in this world
are: perfumes and women; but what gives me most
gratification is prayer.”
In this Hadith, the Prophet combines three totally
different things. The first is both natural and
personal. We can all identify with such a preference.
The second, women, should be taken in a very broad
way. We must not forget that the Prophet grew up in a
society that despised women and ill-treated them.
Islam changed all this and put women on an equal level
with men, assigning to them the same duties of worship
and promising the same rewards. The Prophet provided
the best example in his kind treatment of women.
Indeed, he was kind to all women. Whenever a woman
complained to him of any difficulty she was facing, he
did whatever he could to relieve her difficulty. Any
maid would come to him and take him by the hand. He
would go with her wherever she wanted in the market
place of Madinah until he had sorted out any problem
she had. His treatment of the women in his household
was a splendid model of love and kindness.
Prayer had a special position in his life. It was
the symbol of real and regular contact with God. In
prayer the Prophet felt his true position as God’s
most devoted servant, and realized that God was close
to him, listening to his address and pleased with his
devotion. As he felt such closeness to God, the
Prophet was keen to offer voluntary prayers on every
possible occasion, whether in conjunction with the
five obligatory prayers we offer every day, or at
other times. He offered short voluntary prayers in
mid-morning and long ones at night. Indeed, he often
spent between one and two thirds of the night in
prayer.
His love of a good smell manifested itself in his
personal hygiene. The Prophet often brushed his teeth,
using a tooth stick known as miswak. It is a stick
taken from a certain type of tree. When you peel off
the skin at the top, its fibers serve like a
toothbrush. When the Prophet woke up at night, the
first thing he did was to brush his teeth. He used to
say: “Brushing one’s teeth cleans one’s mouth and
pleases the Lord.” He normally brushed his teeth every
time he performed his ablutions for prayer.