In the Name of Allah, the All-Merciful, the
All-Compassionate
All praise belongs to Allah, the Lord
of all Being, the All-merciful, the All-compassionate,
the Master of the Day of Judgment.1 May Allah’s mercy
and peace be upon all of His Messengers and truthful
and pure Prophets; and may His mercy and peace be upon
the master of the children of Adam and the seal of the
Prophets, our Prophet Muhammad, the trustworthy
Messenger; and may His mercy and peace be upon
Muhammad’s family, companions and whoever follows his
guidance till the Day of Judgment.
To Proceed:
...In the Name of Allah, the
All-Merciful, the All-Compassionate
All praise belongs to Allah, the Lord
of all Being, the All-merciful, the All-compassionate,
the Master of the Day of Judgment.1 May Allah’s mercy
and peace be upon all of His Messengers and truthful
and pure Prophets; and may His mercy and peace be upon
the master of the children of Adam and the seal of the
Prophets, our Prophet Muhammad, the trustworthy
Messenger; and may His mercy and peace be upon
Muhammad’s family, companions and whoever follows his
guidance till the Day of Judgment.
...To Proceed:
Islam and Women’s Work
Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He)
lifted from women the obligation of working to provide
and support herself and her family. He made this
obligation particular for men alone. Allah commanded
men to be responsible for the care of women during all
stages of their life.
• While she is a child, she is under
the care of her father. This responsibility is not
lifted except by her marriage or (his or her) death,
nor does it cease after she reaches a certain age as
occurs in the laws of the ignorant who rule by their
desires and their shallow minds.
• After she marries, the
responsibility falls on her husband so long as she is
under his care due to the contract of marriage.
• If she has neither father or
husband, the responsibility of her care falls on her
brother who assumes the role of the father when he is
not present; and if she has no brother then whoever is
her closest male relative (from whom she would inherit
and whom would inherit from her) would assume the role
of her father.
• If she has no male relatives, the
obligation falls upon the Muslim community. The
responsibility of her care is a communal obligation;
if none fulfills that, all have sinned.
Furthermore even if she is wealthy,
Islam has dropped from her the obligation of assuming
care of anyone. With the presence of her husband (or
for that matter her parents), it is not required that
she spend upon her children unless she seeks to do
such as an act of righteousness, kindness and
observing ties of the womb. She is not obligated to
work in order to take care of herself or her children.
This lifting of the obligation of
working for the purpose of providing for herself was
in order to preserve her from being degraded, as many
jobs that are sought to gain livelihood entail
humiliation and hardship. Likewise this responsibility
was lifted to preserve her from temptation and mixing
with men and because this is from the specialization
that Allah has made as a law for His creation.
If women were charged to work in order
to provide for their livelihood in addition to their
natural duties of pregnancy, child birth, and breast
feeding this would be an obligation above what she
could bear and would be an injustice to women. Or this
work would be at the expense of her natural duties of
pregnancy, birth, breast feeding and raising her
children. And this is what exactly has occurred with
all nations that have deviated from what Allah has
made a natural state among His creation. In these
ignorant un-Islamic societies, men are pleased with
this situation as this gains for them greater
gratification with women and drops from them a
considerable amount of the responsibility of working
and supporting her and her children. This obviously is
a selfish attitude on the part of men. Sadly many
women are pleased with this situation, I mean
gathering between working outside the house to support
herself and her natural duties of pregnancy and child
birth and breast feeding.
This is because of her desire for
amusement and to boast; not because there is any real
human or moral value in her working outside the home.
Unlike what is claimed, women’s work
has no real value boosting the economy. Rather the
truth is that by competing with men for jobs outside
the home, women are a cause in the spread of
unemployment and an increase in the useless
consumption of cosmetics, clothes, and perfumes that
have all become necessary items for women working
outside the home. Furthermore every woman that works
outside the home is in most occasions a cause for
denying an opportunity for a man who could work in her
place. Again this is one factor in unemployment.
Moreover the man who takes the place of a woman in the
household cannot substitute her in her natural duties.
We say what is the economic, moral, or
social value for women working in factories, armies,
cleaning streets and airports, repairing trains,
cleaning public restrooms, as a security guard,
driving taxis, and all other occupations that
humiliate women in those countries that live for this
world alone and do not think of the Hereafter.
This is all from the wretched life
that Allah has warned whoever distances himself from
His way. Allah (Exalted be He) has said:
“... but whosoever turns away from My
rememberance, his shall be a life of narrowness, and
on the Resurrection Day We shall raise him blind.” He
shall say, “O my Lord, why hast Thou raised me blind,
when I was wont to see?” Allah shall say, “So [it must
be]. Our signs came unto thee, and thou didst forget
them; and in a like manner today thou art forgotten.”
(The Quran
20:124)
Although Islam has not obligated women
to work to seek a living and has appointed someone to
be responsible for her during all her stages of her
life; Islamic law has given women the right (so long
as she has reached the age of maturity and is
competent) to own and dispose of her properties
without any guardianship over her (whether that be her
father, husband or anyone else).
She has the right to own all forms of
property, to buy and sell, give gifts and charity, and
all forms of expenditure (without wastefulness) so
long as it is her wealth and her acquisition. However
if she is incompetent, Islam does not distinguish
between men and women in declaring someone legally
incompetent. Islam gave women the right to own and
dispose of property, so that by this she could be a
full legal personality possessing the full right to
dispose of her wealth. Islam provides her with
specific sources to acquire wealth, like the dower,
inheritance, gifts, and all other lawful means for
acquired wealth.
As women in Islamic law are not
required to maintain themselves or others, she was
given half of what men receive in inheritance in
observation that she is not responsible for the
maintenance of anyone and to replenish men’s wealth
who alone are responsible to work and provide
maintenance.
In this Islam opposed the ignorant
un-Islamic practice that forbade women to inherit
under any circumstance because she does not maintain
anyone or fight against any enemy. Allah sent down in
His Glorious Quran:
“To the men [of a family] a share of
what parents and near kindred leave, and to the women
a share of what parents and near kindred leave,
whether it be little or much, a share apportioned…”
(The Quran
4:7)
Without doubt those who claim that
Islam is unjust toward women because it gives her half
of what men receive in inheritance are ignorant of the
distribution of rights and obligations in the pure,
just Islamic law.
“Is the judgment of the pre-Islamic
days of ignorance then that they are seeking? Yet who
is better in judgment than Allah, for a people having
certainty [in their faith]?”
(The Quran 5:50)
Islamic Laws Governing Chastity
Islamic law aims to preserve the six
indispensable necessities (i.e., religion, life, mind,
progeny, wealth, and character) that a human being’s
bliss or a good life upon earth cannot be achieved
except with their preservation.
Islam has legislated laws that aim to
preserve each of these six necessities.
What concerns us here for our
discussion regarding the wisdom of Islam behind its
specific legislations pertaining to women are the
effects of these specific legislations upon preserving
these six necessities and in particular the purity of
one’s progeny and the correctness of his lineage to
one’s parents thereby preserving the circle of
relatives and the circle of the wombs. It is this
lineage that distinguishes human beings on earth from
all other animals.
The preservation of the purity of
one’s progeny and the correctness of lineage to one’s
parents is among those six indispensable necessities
regarding which there is no bliss for humanity nor
will humanity continue to exist without its
preservation.
In order to preserve one’s lineage to
his parents: 1. Islam forbade that a man under any
circumstance marry his mother, daughter, sister, aunt
(paternal or maternal), niece (from his brother or
sister), wife’s mother, his wife’s daughter (if he had
sexual relations with her mother)8 and the equivalents
to these women to whom he is related by breast
feeding, as Islam’s messenger has said:
“What is unlawful by reason of lineage
is forbidden by reason of fosterage.”
The aim in forbidding marriage with
these women is to preserve one’s lineage and the
circle of wombs; and to allow men to become accustomed
to a circle of women around him toward whom he feels
no sexual desire, physical pleasure or possessiveness
but rather toward whom he has feelings of love, mercy
and respect. Hence the feeling a man has toward these
women must be different than the feelings he has
toward a woman whom he can marry and have sex.
Accordingly, Islam forbade a woman
under any circumstance to marry her father, son,
brother, uncle (paternal or maternal), nephew (from
her brother or sister), her husband’s father or son,
and likewise the equivalents to these men to whom she
is bound by breast feeding. This is so that a woman
may feel toward these men feelings of closeness and
love that are free of any sexual desire.
2. In order to preserve the lineage
and make the circle of the womb pure and clean, Islam
ordered that marriage be announced, certified, and
witnessed so that it may be distinguished from illicit
sexual relations. To preserve the honor of women,
Islam required of her guardian to pursue the marriage
contract for his charge (i.e., daughter, sister,
etc.). Hence she does not negotiate with a man for
herself like a woman engaging in adultery or
fornication. In order to preserve a woman’s dignity
and guard her modesty and softness, her closest male
relative settles the marriage contract for her.
3. Since illicit sexual intercourse is
the plague that destroys the pure progeny and correct
lineage, pure and good Islam (which is the law of
Allah Who is All-Wise, Worthy of all praise) has by
all means firmly closed and barred all doors leading
to this plague. Islam cured this problem, before its
occurrence; and has cured it after its occurrence
(when it occurs) rooted it out and terminated all its
effects on society. This is because the sexual
instinct and natural inclination of men and women
toward one another is among the strongest instincts if
not the strongest.
Both men and women are weak before
this instinct and this desire.
Without doubt that to fall into this
plague and its spread means the destruction of the
greatest ingredient for human bliss upon earth and
that is purity of progeny and correct lineage. This
will lead to destruction of the womb and the end of
mercy. For with the spread of illicit sex there is a
spread of illegitimate children. When there are many
illegitimate children: the family comes to an end; the
fabric of society is ripped apart; bonds of love are
ended between society’s members; selfishness and
narcissism becomes wide spread; and hatred and dislike
is spread between people. The only feelings that
remain are those of possessiveness, power, pleasure,
pure self-interest, living for the moment and
distancing of oneself from shouldering the
responsibilities of marriage and raising children.
This is a warning of the impending destruction,
collapse, and loss of mercy, happiness and compassion.
4. In order to keep the progeny clean,
the pure and good Islamic law ordered men and women to
lower one’s glance from one another and commanded that
women cover and hide their beauty from all men who are
permitted to marry her.9
5. This Islamic law forbade a woman to
travel alone without a guardian10.
It forbade that anyone enter her
household while her husband or guardians are not
present or for men (with the exception of her husband
or guardian) to remain in private with them. The
intent behind all these regulations is to preserve
honor, to keep away from the areas of temptation and
doubt, and to preserve trust and peace of mind
regarding chastity and uprightness.
6. Without doubt, that the Islamic
regulations regarding chastity (such as the women’s
dress code and others) were never a barrier for women
to reach the highest degree of perfection possible for
her in terms in all its branches of knowledge, virtue
and righteousness. Indeed the women’s dress code is
among the greatest means that free men and women to
reach their aims, as they are not preoccupied with the
other sex all the time. Practice shows that those
students who are in single sex universities are more
apt to learn than those in coeducational institutions.
“Say to the believers, that they cast
down their eyes and guard their private parts; that is
purer for them. Allah is aware of the things they
work. And say to the believing women, that they cast
down their eyes and guard their private parts, and
reveal not their adornment save such as is outward;
and let them cast their headcoverings over the bosoms,
and not reveal their adornment save to their husbands,
or their fathers, or their husband’s fathers, or their
sons, or their husband’s sons, or their brothers, or
their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their
women, or what their right hands own, or such men as
attend to them, not having sexual desire, or children
who have not yet attained knowledge of women’s private
parts; nor let them stamp their feet, so that their
hidden ornament may be known. And turn all together in
repentance to Allah, O you believers; haply so you
will prosper.”
[The Quran 24:30-31]
My brothers and sisters
everywhere!
These regulations that Islam has
legislated to preserve character and to guard the
purity of offspring and correctness of lineage are
opposed bythose who follow their desires and are short
sighted, those who want tolive for their desires and
their self interests even if this results in every
evil and sin. The attack of these perverts on Islamic
laws that govern chastity and the preservation of
lineage was not as they claim out of their desire to
protect women, her rights or to show justice to her.
Rather their aim was to take women while still in
their youth out of their homes so that she can be
within their reach whenever and wherever they want, to
deceive married women not to preserve the rights of
her husband or guard her lineage, and to make a woman
in every stage of her life a plaything and an object
of pleasure for men that he may fulfill his sexual
desire in every way and at the same time leave her to
deal with what is in her womb, while he is free to
have many as girl friends and passing lovers.
In the end, women are left after
pregnancy to shoulder all the responsibilities.
Either she will commit the crime of
murdering her child prior to giving birth or after; or
either she will give up her child to a foster home
where it will raised far away from any family as
animals are raised in shelters; or either she will
throw her baby away in the trash. If there remains
anything of her maternal instincts, she will try to
find some means to take care of this child. She might
look for another man to replace the first who after
fulfilling his desires left her.
This painful reality is what has
resulted in the sinful, amoral societies wherein men
claim that they want to preserve women’s rights and
give her equality with men. This reality is the
greatest proof that their claim that they seek
equality is only a lie and a means of deception.
Women were the sacrificial ram for
this call to “equality.” For her to seek a livelihood
has become a necessity of life and it is against her
nature and constitution.
A man is able to have sex with a
thousand women and will never carry anything in his
belly, and still will be able to have sex with a
thousand more. While a woman might become pregnant
during her first sexual experience with any passing
man who seeks only gratification. She alone is held
responsible for all the rest. She will either kill
what lies in her belly or she will be responsible for
all the maintenance and what follows.
Where then is the
equality?
In these societies, the un-Islamic
ignorant contracts of marriage are no longer a
guarantee for women. For if a man can find a woman
whom he can enjoy without these guarantees and
responsibilities, why should he turn to marriage with
its restrictions and consequences? Moreover, since in
these societies women have been made equal to men in
the right to terminate marriage, these contracts do
not remain but for the briefest period of time,
sometimes not lasting more than a few hours. Again,
where is the equality?
Marriage in Islam
My brothers and sisters
everywhere!
I call you to learn about the marriage
contract as it is set forth in the pure Islamic law
that was sent down upon Allah’s final prophet and His
messenger, our master Muhammad (may Allah’s peace and
blessings be upon him).
In this contract their is such wisdom
and perfection whereas it achieves bliss, peace, and
security for all men and women upon this earth.
In the [Islamic marriage contract],
Allah distributed the rights and obligations between
men and women in a just and wise manner. He has
appointed
for it a safety valve in the man’s
hand as He (Exalted be He) has said:
“Women have such honorable rights as
obligations, but men have a [single] degree above
them.”
(The
Quran 2:228)
Without going into the details of this
contract:
• In the [Islamic] marriage contract,
Allah obligated upon the man to provide the woman a
dower11 and maintenance which includes her food,
housing, and clothing12. Allah placed maintenance of
the children upon the husband alone. Allah absolved
women from the responsibility of seeking a livelihood
and the necessities of life for her or her children.
• Allah required from the woman
obedience and sincerity toward her husband, that to
him alone she gives her all, and that she guard his
dwelling as she has been entrusted with that.
• As for sexual pleasure, each spouse
is to have pleasure with the other.13
• Among the rights that Allah gave to
the man alone is the right to separate and divorce his
wife. This was such in order to preserve the secretsof
marriage, so that he is not forced to turn to
injustice to the woman, degrade her, or spread her
secrets.
• Upon divorcing his wife, Allah
required that a man maintain her for the waiting
period (which if she is pregnant is until she gives
birth; if she is menstruating for three periods; and
for all others three months).
In any case, he is forever responsible
for the maintenance of her children.
If she is going to raise the children,
it is [also] his responsibility to maintain her. By
that a woman is absolved from working or seeking the
necessities of life while she is a wife or when as a
mother she is raising [his] children after divorce.
• Allah also gave women the right to
leave the marriage contract. In this case, however,
she must return to him the dower he gave her, unless
he drops that condition.
• Allah made the marriage contract
“a strong pledge,”14
each one of them, man and woman, must legally uphold
this bond in this world and will accordingly be judged
in the Hereafter.
• Islam gave men the right to marry up
to four women at one time, provided he is able to
maintain them all.15 Of course, a woman who accepts
this, accepts such willingly and out of consent. Allah
- Glorified and Exalted be He - has permitted this, so
that no woman would remain without a husband; no man
would turn to illicit sex (for lawful means have been
facilitated for him); and so that each child would
have a correct lineage to its parents.
Without doubt those who desired to
restrict a man to a single wife, arguing for equality
harshly reject that a man gather under his custody
more than one woman; where unable to achieve that.
Many men by instinct and nature cannot
restrict themselves to one woman or else he will
engage in illicit sexual intercourse. When the
preachers of [this] “false” equality wanted to oppose
the natural way, it collided with them. This resulted
in men taking girlfriends and lovers.
Illicit sex spread, illegitimate
children multiplied, and [human] suffering became
widespread.
Among this suffering is that men have
turned to raping their children.
The statistics regarding this are
extremely frightful. What crime have these “preachers
of equality” brought to humanity that they have turned
fathers into predatory beasts raping their daughters,
offspring, and family members.
This is what occurs in the closet. As
for what openly occurs in public, those whose nature
has been perverted are delightful, proud and boastful
at the great number of wicked girlfriends and lovers
they have. Yet they have a fit and haughtily reject
that a man be permitted to have more than one chaste,
pure wife for him alone. What a reversal of nature?
And what a false claim that they seek equality between
men and women?
The truth of the matter is that it is
impossible to have absolute equality between men and
women in what is specific for each of them. So long as
it is impossible to achieve absolute equality between
men and women, it is required to distribute rights and
obligations [between the spouses] according to the
manner in which the Creator (Glorified and Exalted be
He) has assigned each one.
My brothers and sisters
everywhere!
I call you to affirm the marriage
contract in Islam as Allah sent it down upon the final
prophet and messenger, our master Muhammad (may
Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him). For when
applied it is a guarantee to achieve the blessed, good
life that every reasoning person hopes and strives for
on this earth.
An Appeal To Save Humanity
My brothers and sisters everywhere!
We appeal you to save humanity from
the wickedness into which it has fallen as result of
its distancing itself from Allah’s way and religion
and opposing His good and pure laws. We will remind
you with some of the calamities that have befallen
humanity due to its running behind its passions and
traveling on Satan’s path of temptation.
Among which:
1. The Murder of One’s Offspring:
The crime of murdering children and
offspring which now has reached appalling numbers as a
result of abortions performed secretly or openly.16
This is among the results of making lawful illicit sex
and immorality, charging women with working for a
living, and facilitating the means that allow men to
get women as they want.
2. The Spread of Illicit Sex and
Immorality:
The making lawful of illicit sex is a
great crime against humanity. Every religion and
religious law that Allah sent down from heaven has
forbidden this hideous crime and has decreed for it
the most severest punishment, specifically stoning,
for any man or woman who previously was married and
engages in illicit sexual intercourse.
This punishment has come in the law
sent down upon Moses (upon him peace) as mentioned in
Deuteronomy 22:20-24 regarding the women who her
husband consummates marriage with her and finds her
not a virgin.
“But if this thing be true, and the
tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel: then
they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her
father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone
her with stones that she shall die: because she hath
wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her
father’s house: so shalt thou put evil away from among
you.
“If a man be found lying with a woman
married to an husband, then they shall both of them
die, both the man that lay with the women, and the
women: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel.
“If a damsel that is a virgin be
betrothed unto a husband, and a man find her in the
city, and lie with her; then ye shall bring them both
unto the gate of that city, and ye shall stone them
with stones that they die; the damsel, because she
cried not, being in the city; and the man, because he
hath humbled his neighbor’s wife: so thou shalt put
away evil from among you.”
Without doubt that this which has been
sent down upon Moses (uponhim peace) is the law that
Jesus (upon him peace) brought; for Jesus came as a
prophet, messenger, and ruler judging by the law of
the Torah.
As mentioned in the Gospel, Jesus
(upon him peace) says:
Think not that I am come to destroy
the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy,
but to fulfill. For verily I say unto you, Till heaven
and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise
pass from the law, till all be fulfilled. Whosoever
therefore shall break one of these least commandments,
and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least
in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and
teach them, the same shall be called the great in the
kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 5:17-19)
The Messiah (upon him peace) came to
command the honorable and forbid the dishonorable.
Illicit sex is among the greatest of what he forbade.
The Messiah is quoted as saying:
“Ye have heard that it was said to
them of old time, Thou shall not commit adultery: But
I say unto you. That whoever looketh on a woman to
lust after her hath committed adultery with her
already in his heart. And if thy right eye offend
thee, pluck it out: for it is profitable for thee that
one of they members should perish, and not that thy
whole body should be cast into hell. And if thy right
hand offend thee, cut it off; for it is profitable for
thee that one of they members should perish, and not
that thy whole body should be cast into hell.”
(Matthew 5:27-30)
As for the law that has been sent down
upon Allah’s final messenger, Muhammad the son of
Abdullah (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon
him); it came with complete purity for society from
this evil plague of illicit sexual relations by
closing its doors and all means that lead to it and
terminating its deleterious effects and results. In
the Quran sent down [upon the Prophet Muhammad], we
find the statement of Allah (Blessed and Exalted be
He):
“And approach not illicit sex; surely
it is an indecency, and evil as a way.”
(The Quran 17:32)
To these
three laws more than one-half of the inhabitants of
the earth adhere today. Many of them are proud that
they ascribe to these laws.
However the worshippers of their
desires and the followers of Satan have set astray
many of humanity from this guidance and light. The
laws of Satan and the way of the Devil first came to
make lawful for a man and a woman if they are
consenting, single adults that they may commit this
crime without it being considered a sin or evil. Then
the world was increased in evil when the callers of
equality announced that illicit sex is not a crime
when done by any man or woman, married or single, and
that this is from one’s personal freedoms. By this
they hastened the destruction of the world through the
bringing forth of illegitimate children, the
destruction of the family, and the destruction of the
wombs rendering humanity (and it has become) into a
group of cattle and beasts; indeed like swine which
have no sense of jealousy or morality.
3. Child Molestation and Incest
Among the greatest acts of perversion
that the laws of Satan have brought about is child
molestation and incest. The number of incidents have
reached such a frightful percentage that warns of the
destruction of civilization. The homes of the
irreligious have become homes of criminal activity and
predatory behavior. Lost are the ideals of a home
being a repose, safety, and security. A father’s
attack upon his sons, his daughters, the raping of his
children and relatives is among the most hideous of
what the earth has witnessed from acts of corruption
and perversion.
4. Conception by Any Means and the
Bringing Forth of Illegitimate Children
Without doubt by the permitting
pregnancy by any means whether by the husband or
others; the establishment of sperm banks; are among
the greatest aggressions against humanity and the
permitting of the bringing forth of a people that are
not linked in descent to their fathers. This is the
defilement of one’s progeny and the destruction of
lineage. This will quickly result in ruin and
destruction; as there will come forth generations of
illegitimate children who do not know the meaning of
mercy nor are members of humanity except outwardly. As
for being inwardly human, it is that person who is
attributed to a mother and father and lives within a
circle of relatives and knows the meaning of family
and harmony as this will not be present. And by this
corruption, killing, and criminal behavior will become
prevalent. It will become easy for a person to kill
another person without blinking an eye or feeling any
remorse in his heart or change of feeling.
5. The Abasement and Humiliation of
Women
These unjust laws that falsely call
for equality have attacked that it has taken out women
from their covering and respect so that they may earn
their livelihood by their own hand like men. It is an
injustice to women, degraded her to the fullest,
caused her to bear great weights, and has turned her
into a cheap commodity that every wicked person and
passing person may get hold off to throw away on the
side of the road when finished.
One time, a woman was exalted in her
fathers’ house. He would stand up for her needs. He
would propose marriage on her behalf and men would
seek of her hand from her guardian and paying her a
dower. The husband was responsible for all her
maintenance and if she gave birth, the maintenance of
her children was upon her husband not her. When she
becomes a mother it becomes her right upon her
children, after the right of Allah (Glorified and
Exalted be He). This is the woman that Allah’s Islamic
law has honored in this manner and now has become a
degraded, cheap commodity indeed sold with every
product. Today a woman is a cover girl and Satan’s
trap and passing enjoyment and a sadden women toiling
outside the home and sadden inside the home being
burdened with pregnancy and child birth and having to
struggle and work to acquire a livelihood.
8 Allah says: “Forbidden to you are your mothers
and daughters, your sisters, your aunts, paternal
and maternal, your brother’s daughters, your sister’s
daughters, your mothers who
have given suck to you, your suckling sisters, your
wives’ mothers, your stepdaughters who are in your
care being born of your wives you have been in to—but
if you have not yet been in to them it is no fault in
you—and the spouses of your sons who are of your
loins, and that you should take to you two sisters
together, unless it be a thing of the past; Allah is
All-forgiving, All-compassionate; and wedded women,
save what your own right hands own. So Allah
prescribes to you. Lawful for you, beyond all that, is
that you may seek, using your wealth, in wedlock and
not in licence.” [The Quran 4:23-24]
9 Allah says: “Say to the believers, that they cast
down their eyes and guard their private parts; that is
purer for them. Allah is aware of the things they
work. And say to the believing women, that they cast
down their eyes and guard their private parts, and
reveal not their adornment save such as is outward;
and let them cast their headcoverings over the bosoms,
and not reveal their adornment save to their husbands,
or their fathers, or their husband’s fathers, or their
sons, or their husband’s sons, or their brothers, or
their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their
women, or what their right hands own, or such men as
attend to them, not having sexual desire, or children
who have not yet attained knowledge of women’s private
parts; nor let them stamp their feet, so that their
hidden ornament may be known. And turn all together in
repentance to Allah, O you believers; haply so you
will prosper.” [The Quran 24:30-31]
10 A guardian (mahram) is defined as whoever she is
forbidden to marry under any circumstance.
11 Allah says: “And give the women their dowries as a
gift spontaneous.” [The Quran 4:4]
12 Allah says: “Men are the managers of the affairs of
women for that Allah has preferred one of them over
another, and for that they have expended of their
property.” [The Quran 4:34]
13 Allah says: “... they (i.e., your wives) are a
vestment for you, and you are a vestament for them.”
[The Quran 2:187]
“And of His signs is that He created for you, of
yourselves, spouses, that you might repose in them,
and He has set between you love and mercy. Surely in
that are signs for a people who consider.” [The Quran
30:21]
14 A reference to the Quran 4:21.
15 Allah says: “... marry such women as seem good to
you, two, three, four; but if you fear you will not be
equitable, then only one, or what your right hands
own; so it is likelier you will not be partial.” [The
Quran 4:3]
16 Allah says condemning the pre-Islamic Arabian
practice of female infanticide: “... when the buried
infant shall be asked for what sin she was slain,...”
[The Quran 81:8] “... and when any of them is given
the good tidings of a girl, his face is darkened and
he grieves inwardly, as he hides himself from the
people because of the evil of the good tidings that
have been given unto him, whether he shall preserve
her in humiliation, or trample her into the dust. Ah,
evil is that they judge!” [The Quran 16:58-59]