Women Appearing In Front Of Men: A Woman Does not Act as a Mahram for Another Woman
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Many men in some families allow their wives,
daughters and sisters to appear in front of men who
are not their mahrams, such as their friends and
colleagues, and let them sit with them and talk to
them as if they were their mahrams. If we advise them
they say that this is their custom and the custom of
their forefathers, and they claim that their hearts
are clean. Some of them are proud and arrogant
although they understand the ruling, and others are
ignorant of the ruling. What is your advice to them?.
Praise be to Allaah.
What every Muslim must do is not to rely on customs;
rather he should refer the matter to the pure
sharee'ah. Whatever Islam approves of is permissible
and whatever it does not approve of, he should not do
it. The fact that people are accustomed to a thing
does not constitute evidence that it is permissible.
All the customs that people may have in their cities
or tribes should be referred to the Book of Allaah and
the Sunnah of His Messenger (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him). Whatever Allaah and His Messenger
have permitted is permissible, and whatever Allaah has
forbidden must be given up, even if it is the people's
custom. If the people are accustomed to being careless
concerning the matter of khulwah (being alone with a
non-mahram member of the opposite sex) or of women
uncovering their faces in front of non-mahrams, these
are false customs which must be given up. Similarly if
people are accustomed to adultery, homosexuality and
drinking alcohol, they must give up these things. What
is customary does not count as proof, rather sharee'ah
comes above all things, so the one whom Allaah has
guided to Islam has to keep away from that which
Allaah has forbidden of alcohol, adultery, theft,
disobedience towards parents, severing the ties of
kinship and everything that Allaah has forbidden, and
he must adhere to that which Allaah has enjoined.
Similarly the family must respect the command of
Allaah and His Messenger, and keep away from that
which Allaah and His Messenger have forbidden. If it
is their custom for their women folk to appear in
front of non-mahrams or to be alone with a non-mahram,
they must give up those practices.
A woman should not uncover her face or anything else
in front of her cousin, her sister's husband, or her
husband's brothers or uncles (paternal or maternal).
Rather she must observe hijab and cover her face and
head and entire body in front of any non-mahram. With
regard to speaking, there is nothing wrong with that,
such as returning the greeting of salaam or initiating
it, so long as she observes hijab and avoids being
alone with any non-mahram, because Allaah says
(interpretation of the meaning):
"And when you ask (his wives) for anything you want,
ask them from behind a screen, that is purer for your
hearts and for their hearts"
[al-Ahzaab 33:53]
"O wives of the Prophet! You are not like any other
women. If you keep your duty (to Allaah), then be not
soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease
(of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery) should be
moved with desire, but speak in an honourable manner"
[al-Ahzaab 33:32]
Allaah forbade the wives of the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) to be soft in speech,
i.e., to speak in a soft and alluring tone that might
give hope to the one in whose heart is a disease,
i.e., the disease of desire and make him think that
she is easy and has no objections. Rather she should
speak in a moderate tone that is neither too harsh nor
too soft. And Allaah tells us that hijab is purer for
the hearts of everyone.
And Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the
women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils)
all over their bodies (i.e. screen themselves
completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way).
That will be better, that they should be known (as
free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And
Allaah is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful"
[al-Ahzaab 33:59]
The jilbab (cloak, veil) is a garment which covers the
head and body; the woman puts it over her head and
covers her body with it, wearing it over her clothes.
And Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"And tell the believing women to lower their gaze
(from looking at forbidden things), and protect their
private parts (from illegal sexual acts) and not to
show off their adornment except only that which is
apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way,
or outer palms of hands or one eye or dress like veil,
gloves, headcover, apron), and to draw their veils all
over Juyoobihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and
bosoms) and not to reveal their adornment except to
their husbands, or their fathers, or their husband's
fathers, or their sons, or their husband's sons, or
their brothers or their brother's sons, or their
sister's sons, or their (Muslim) women (i.e. their
sisters in Islam), or the (female) slaves whom their
right hands possess, or old male servants who lack
vigour, or small children who have no sense of
feminine sex…"
[al-Noor 24:31]
With regard to those mentioned in this verse, there is
nothing wrong with a woman showing her adornment to
them.
So all Muslim women must fear Allaah and avoid that
which Allaah has forbidden to them of showing their
adornment to anyone other than those to whom Allaah
has permitted them to show it.
Majmoo' Fataawa wa Maqaalaat Li'l-Shaykh Ibn Baaz,
6/406
A Woman Does not Act as a Mahram for Another Woman
Can a woman be considered a mahram for a woman she is
not related to for purposes of traveling or sitting
with others?
Praise be to Allaah.
A woman cannot be a mahram for another. The one who is
considered mahram is a man that a woman
cannot marry due to blood relations, such as her
father and her brother, or a man related to her due to
marriage, such as
her husband, her father-in-law and her step-son, or a
man related due to breast feeding, such as her father
from breast
feeding and so forth.
It is not allowed for a man to be in private with a
woman he is not related to nor can he travel with her.
The Prophet
(peace be upon him) said,
"A woman does not travel except with a mahram."
This was recorded by al-Bukhari and Muslim. The
Prophet (peace be upon him)
also said,
"A man is never alone with a woman except that Satan
is the third."
This was recorded by Imam Ahmad and others from the
hadith of Umar with a sahih chain.
Shaikh ibn Baz
What is the khulwah that is
forbidden?
Does khulwah (being alone with a member of the
opposite sex) only refer to when a man is alone with a
woman is some room, far from the view of people? Or
does it mean every instance where a man is alone with
a woman even if that is in view of people?.
Praise be to Allaah.
What is meant by the kind of khulwah that is haraam is
not only a man being alone with a non-mahram woman in
a room where no one can see them, rather it includes
their being alone in any place where they can converse
with one another, even if that is where others can see
them but not hear them, and whether that is in the
open air, in a car, on the roof of a house, or
wherever. Khulwah is forbidden because it is the
forerunner of zina (adultery, fornication) and the
means that leads to zina. Every case that is like this
comes under the same rulings as khulwah in the sense
of being away from where people can see you.
And Allaah is the Source of strength.
Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah, 17/57
It is not permissible for a shaykh
to be alone with a non-mahram woman in order to recite
ruqyah for her
What is the ruling on going to a man who is
known as a shaykh, for him to treat illness with the
Qur'aan, but when he recites over women he is alone
with each one of them on her own, and if the woman's
situation calls for it he keeps her in his house for a
few days? I was one of these women, but I felt deep
regret and asked Allaah's forgiveness and repented to
Him.
Praise be to Allaah.
It is haraam for a man to be alone with a woman who is
not his mahram, even if that is for the purpose of
treating her with ruqyah by reciting Qur'aan, because
the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said: "No man is alone with a (non-mahram) woman,
but the Shaytaan is the third one present." Even more
serious and sinful than being alone with him is your
staying overnight in the house of that man who is a
stranger (non-mahram) to you, and staying in his house
for a number of nights and days, and being alone with
him. These are means that lead to evil and corruption.
Any Muslim woman who has done such a thing has to
repent sincerely from that, and not go back to such
evil deeds.
And Allaah is the Source of strength.
Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah li'l-Buhooth al-‘Ilmiyyah
wa'l-Ifta', 17/63.
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