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12 September 2012 By Abdul Rahman Al-Rashid On YouTube, his popularity now exceeds clips of
famous Arab celebrities and internet stars. I do not
know if a documentary like this has ever received such
enormous attention from the public, or not. The story
is narrated by the young man himself, as he details
his fight against a severe disability that has
deprived him the use of all his limbs, and how he has
overcome it. He is a university graduate, a
journalist, and a man with big dreams. It seems a five
minute video has been enough to awaken many of those
who suffer from the worst kind of disability: the
disease of surrendering to failure. "Ammar" is the name of the film, and also the name
of its hero. It was produced by Bader al-Humoud and
has touched the hearts of millions of people. Yet
their love is not out of sympathy for Ammar Bogis the
disabled, but rather their admiration for Ammar Bogis
the successful, despite of everything. The story is a
source of pride because he triumphed over many
challenges and won the battle of his life after a
difficult struggle to overcome his condition and the
condition of his society. His story, which has awakened the idle and the
helpless, and likewise stoked the inspiration of the
aspiring, coincided with the Paralympics in London and
hence it received a mass audience. The Paralympics
showcased the best disabled athletes in the world,
whether blind, amputees, or those suffering from
cerebral palsy and intellectual disabilities. Some of
them used wheelchairs, others used walking sticks, and
others used sight guides, but they all competed on the
racetrack, in team sports, or horseback, in the
swimming pool and elsewhere. The message is clear to all…real disability is a
lack of will, and the Paralympics were nothing other
than a celebration of the successful. For example, we
would see a 100 meter race between disabled athletes
with prosthetic legs, running into the wind, and one
would come through to win the gold medal to the
amazement and admiration of the crowd. Society's problem is not in engaging with those
inflicted with physical disabilities, because these
people are often the most driven and determined. The
problem lies in those inflicted with helplessness and
dependency even though they are able-bodied, searching
for excuses for their inactivity, and placing the
blame on others. These excusers and accusers are the
ones most in need of Ammar's example so that they
become aware that life is in their own court, and
success is produced by their own hands. Young people
should not be inflicted with the spirit of dependency,
and wait for opportunities to knock at their doors,
rather they should be the ones urgently beating down
doors and seeking success. If Ammar was determined to climb the stairs in
spite of everything, and finished his studies and
received a graduate diploma, then everyone can do so
and climb the ladder like him. Like Ammar, there are
also the dozens who participated in the London
Paralympics and won gold medals. With these examples
we can fight the worst disease in our society today,
frustration, and its symptoms: feelings of
helplessness, a sense of failure, and a sense of
marginalization. In order to do so we must ask those
we wrongly label "disabled" to come forward and lead
the frustrated to the starting line. |