Muslim women facing Islamophobia challenge the 'victim' stereotype
18 August 2017Hanan Issa,
MuslimGirl.com
Islamophobia is real and it is becoming a global issue affecting Muslims
regardless of ethnicity, age, profession and social standing. In the UK,
anti-Muslim hate crimes have increased fivefold after the terror attacks in
Manchester and London, and in the U.S. the number of hate groups that
specifically targeted Muslims rose from 34 in 2015 to 101 in 2016.
Last year, the late Member of Parliament (MP) Jo Cox worked on a report that
highlighted how Muslim women were more likely to be attacked than Muslim men.
Dr. Irene Zempi of Nottingham Trent University, who has done considerable
research in the area of gendered Islamophobia, corroborated the statement of
Fiyaz Moghul, the founder of Tell MAMA, a project based in the UK that records
and analyzes reported anti-Muslim incidents. Moghul suggests that these
figures are due to Muslim women in hijab (head covering) or niqab (face veil)
being more "visibly Muslim."
As a result, I've noticed a shift in the attitude toward Muslim women who
experience Islamophobia. There are times that women are depicted as helpless
victims waiting for their proverbial knight in shining armor -who is, more
often than not, a white, non-Muslim man or woman. This is not to devalue ally
ship–I think there are several times where support from non-Muslims has made a
significant impact, such as Tracey Tong on the New York City subway and the
men who died defending a Muslim teen girl and her friend in Portland.
However, it is concerning to note how the Muslim women involved in these
incidents are frequently reported as silent, passive and more worryingly,
helpless. I have had my own experiences of Islamophobic abuse and there have
most certainly been times where I've felt scared for my safety and decided not
to react. But perpetuating the idea that all Muslim women are passive victims
will only serve to increase the notion that visible Muslim women are easy
targets and, ultimately, lead to more of these incidents.
But it really isn't difficult to find examples of how Muslim women are
combating these incidents using their own personal strengths. From Zakia
Belkhiri taking fire selfies in front of a far-right protest or Saffiyah
Khan's calmly defiant smile while squaring up to the EDL (English Defence
League) leader, to MuslimGirl's own writers compiling a Crisis Safety manual
to help Muslim women feel prepared for an Islamophobic interaction.
I asked women to submit their own stories of how they have personally dealt
with Islamophobic incidents:
I was coming home from uni and walking to the train station. I saw these 2
young boys and they started making fun of me saying "KABOOM" and "ALLAHU AKBAR"
so I turned and gave them a look and just said 'excuse me' and they shut up.
Later, when we were standing on the platform they were just messing around so
I smiled at them to let them know Muslims can smile too.
–Zubaida Kadir
I was sat in A&E with this guy sat opposite looking very aggressive towards me
and muttering things under his breath. He was also saying he'd been there for
hours, nobody cares and he'd had nothing to eat or drink.
I went to the concourse and bought him a sandwich meal deal, I walked over to
him and gave him the food and drink. His whole body language totally changed
and he told me his life story.
– Lisa Roberts
I SAW THESE 2 YOUNG BOYS AND THEY STARTED MAKING FUN OF ME SAYING "KABOOM" AND
"ALLAHU AKBAR" SO I TURNED AND GAVE THEM A LOOK AND JUST SAID 'EXCUSE ME' AND
THEY SHUT UP.
A while ago, when I was wearing a hijab, I was the only pedestrian walking
along the footpath of a main road. A car full of young men drove past shouting
obscenities at me. One of the passengers had half of his body hanging out of
the car window shouting lewd comments mixed with anti-Muslim insults. I looked
at them, smiled and said a big "Hi!" while waving as if they were my long-lost
friends. The look on their faces was priceless! The guy who was hanging out
the window dropped his jaw, and silently got back into his seat. A few minutes
later we were at the same stop lights waiting for the lights to go green, they
were right next to me, and not one peep from the four of them!
–Melati Lum
Had a phone call at work from a woman who had "questions about Muslims." I got
a chance to employ my "empathetic listening and Socratic questioning" skills
and kept challenging her assumptions politely. But then she said, "You people
may think this is your country too…"
Oh, no you didn't.
My response: "Ma'am, I don't think, I know. My dad's family are from Ludlow
and Manchester, my mum's family are also English. I don't think this is my
country. This is my country."
To which she spluttered, "Then why aren't you Christian!"
I then told her that not every white Brit follows a 2000-year-old
Middle-Eastern religion. Lots of us follow a 1500-year-old Middle-Eastern
religion. Heck, some of us follow a 4000-year-old Middle-Eastern religion! She
didn't like that!
–Amanda Rebecca Morris
BUT IT REALLY ISN'T DIFFICULT TO FIND EXAMPLES OF HOW MUSLIM WOMEN ARE
COMBATING THESE INCIDENTS USING THEIR OWN PERSONAL STRENGTHS.
I chased a kid once at break time because he told me to take the towel off my
head. Once I caught him I grabbed him by his chest and made him apologize and
corrected his misinterpretation of the hijab. We were buddies after that!
–Haifa Shamsan
It's important to remember that while ally ship plays an important role in
combatting Islamophobia, we need to encourage each other in the belief that we
are, in fact, our own saviors.
Share your own stories of dealing with Islamophobia in the comments!
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