It Is Not Permissible For A Man To Obey His Parents By Making His Wife Not Wear Niqaab
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if parents of the man
wouldn't like his wife to wear nikab,does he has a
right to ask from his wife or future wife to wear
it,contrary to their will?
Praise be to Allaah.
It is obligatory on the husband to make his wife
observe proper hijaab as prescribed in sharee'ah and
cover her face. The evidence of the Qur'aan and Sunnah
indicates that it is obligatory for women to cover
their faces, for example, the aayah in which Allaah
says (interpretation of the meaning):
"O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the
women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils)
all over their bodies…"
[al-Ahzaab 33:59]
The jilbaab (translated here as "cloak") is a garment
which a woman places on her head and lets it drop over
her face.
And Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"and not to reveal their adornment except to their
husbands…" [al-Noor 24:31]
The focal point of beauty and adornment is the face,
so it is ‘awrah. So he [the husband] should fear
Allaah and not obey his parents in this matter. He
should make his wife observe proper hijaab, for there
is no obedience to any created being if it involves
disobedience to the Creator, as it says in the hadeeth
of Ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him), who
said: "The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said: ‘To hear and obey is a duty
unless there comes an order to commit sin. If there
comes an order to commit sin, then there is no hearing
and no obeying." (narrated by al-Bukhaari, al-Jihaad
wa'l-Siyar, 2735). How can he anger his Lord by
pleasing his parents? Let him fear Allaah and remember
that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him) has made him responsible for his family,
when he said, "Every man is in charge of his family
and is responsible for those who are under his care."
(narrated by al-Bukhaari in al-Jumu'ah, 844). So
praise Allaah for giving you a wife who is content to
observe proper hijaab. May Allaah help us and you to
do all that is good.
Fataawa al-Mar'ah al-Muslimah, 1/443-444
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
Correct view on the ruling on
covering the face
With regard to the niqaab,
what are the ahaadeeth and aayaat that refer
specifically to it?.
Praise be to Allaah.
The correct view is that a woman is obliged to cover
her entire body, even the face and hands. Imam Ahmad
said that even the nails of a woman are ‘awrah, and
this is also the view of Maalik (may Allaah have mercy
on them both). Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may
Allaah have mercy on him) said:
"… It seems that the view of Ahmad is that every part
of her is ‘awrah, even her nails, and this is also the
view of Maalik."
(Majmoo' al-Fataawa, 22/110).
In contrast to those who say that this is not
obligatory, if we examine the views of those who say
that it is not obligatory for women to cover the face,
we will see that it is as Shaykh Bakr Abu Zayd (may
Allaah preserve him) said:
"One of the following three scenarios must apply:
1 – There is clear, sound evidence, but it has been
abrogated by the verses that enjoin hijaab…
2 – There is sound evidence but it is not clear, and
it does not constitute strong evidence when taken in
conjunction with the definitive evidence from the
Qur'aan and Sunnah that the face and hands must be
covered…
3 – There is clear evidence, but it is not sound…"
(Hiraasat al-Fadeelah, p. 68-69)
With regard to the evidence that it is obligatory to
cover the face and hands:
1 – Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the
women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils)
all over their bodies (i.e. screen themselves
completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way).
That will be better, that they should be known (as
free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And
Allaah is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful"
[al-Ahzaab 33:59]
Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
"Allaah commands women to let the jilbaab come down
(over their faces) so that they will be known (as
respectable women) and not be annoyed or disturbed.
This evidence supports the first opinion. ‘Ubaydah al-Salmaani
and others stated that the women used to wear the
jilbaab coming down from the top of their heads in
such a manner that nothing could be seen except their
eyes, so that they could see where they were going. It
was proven in al-Saheeh that the woman in ihraam is
forbidden to wear the niqaab and gloves. This is what
proves that the niqaab and gloves were known among
women who were not in ihraam. This implies that they
covered their faces and hands."
(Majmoo' al-Fataawa, 15/371-372)
2 – Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"And tell the believing women to lower their gaze
(from looking at forbidden things), and protect their
private parts (from illegal sexual acts) and not to
show off their adornment except only that which is
apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way,
or outer palms of hands or one eye or dress like veil,
gloves, headcover, apron), and to draw their veils all
over Juyoobihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and
bosoms)…"
[al-Noor 24:31]
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said:
"With regard to the phrase ‘and not to show off their
adornment except only that which is apparent',
‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas'ood said: the adornment which is
apparent is the garment, because the word zeenah
(adornment) was originally a name for the clothes and
jewellery, as we see in the verses in which Allaah
says (interpretation of the meaning):
‘Take your adornment (by wearing your clean clothes)'
[al-A'raaf 7:31]
‘Say (O Muhammad): Who has forbidden the adornment
with clothes given by Allaah, which He has produced
for His slaves'
[al-A'raaf 7:32]
‘And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal
what they hide of their adornment'
[al-Noor 24:31]
Stamping the feet makes known the khulkhaal (anklets)
and other kinds of jewellery and clothing. Allaah
forbade women to show any kind of adornment except
that which is apparent, but He allowed showing the
hidden adornment to mahrams. It is known that the kind
of adornment that usually appears, without any choice
on the part of the women, is the clothing, as for the
body, it is possible to either show it or to cover it.
All of this indicates that what appears of the
adornment is the clothing.
Ahmad said: the adornment which is apparent is the
clothing. And he said: every part of a woman is
‘awrah, even her nails. It was narrated in the hadeeth,
‘The woman is ‘awrah,' This includes all of the woman.
It is not makrooh to cover the hands during prayer, so
they are part of the ‘awrah, just like the feet.
Analogy implies that the face would be ‘awrah were it
not for the fact that necessity dictates that it
should be uncovered during prayer, unlike the hands."
Sharh al-‘Umdah, 4/267-268.
3 – It was narrated that ‘Aa'ishah said: "The riders
used to pass by us when we were with the Messenger of
Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) in
ihraam. When they came near, each of us would lower
her jilbaab from her head over her face, and when they
passed by we would uncover (our faces)."
Narrated by Abu Dawood, 1833; Ahmad, 24067
Shaykh al-Albaani said in Jilbaab al-Mar'ah al-Muslimah
(107): its isnaad is hasan because of the existence of
corroborating reports.
It is well known that a woman should not put anything
over her face when she is in ihraam, but ‘Aa'ishah and
the Sahaabiyaat (women of the Sahaabah) who were with
her used to lower part of their garments over their
faces because the obligation to cover the face when
non-mahrams pass by is stronger than the obligation to
uncover the face when in ihraam.
4 – It was narrated that ‘Aa'ishah (may Allaah be
pleased with her) said: "May Allaah have mercy on the
women of the Muhaajireen. When Allaah revealed the
words (interpretation of the meaning)
‘and to draw their veils all over Juyoobihinna (i.e.
their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)…"
[al-Noor 24:31], they tore their aprons and covered
their faces with them."
(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 4480)
5 – It was narrated from ‘Aa'ishah… that Safwaan ibn
al-Mu'attal al-Sulami al-Dhakwaani was lagging behind
the army. He came to where I had stopped and saw the
black shape of a person sleeping. He recognized me
when he saw me, because he had seen me before hijaab
was enjoined. I woke up when I heard him saying ‘Inna
Lillaahi wa inna ilayhi raaji'oon (verily to Allaah we
belong and unto Him is our return),' when he saw me,
and I covered my face with my jilbaab."
(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 3910; Muslim, 2770)
6 – It was narrated from ‘Abd-Allaah that the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "The
woman is ‘awrah and when she goes out the Shaytaan
gets his hopes up."
(Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1173).
Al-Albaani said in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi (936): It is
saheeh.
Please see Question no. 21134 for more information
about the niqaab.