The Situation Of One Who Is Illegitimate And The Ruling On Marrying Him
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Is it true
that our beloved prophet (Peace And Blessings Of
Allaah Be Upon Him) has strongly forbidden to marry
iligitimate person eventhough this person is very
pious?
Praise be to Allaah.
There are
some ahaadeeth that condemn the illegitimate child,
but most of these ahaadeeth are da'eef (weak) and are
not saheeh (sound). It was narrated by Abu Dawood in
his Sunan (4/39) and by Ahmad in al-Musnad (2/311)
from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him)
that the Prophets (Peace And Blessings Of Allaah Be
Upon Him) said: "The illegitimate child is the most
evil of the three" meaning more evil than his parents.
Among the scholars who classed this as hasan were Ibn
al-Qayyim in al-Manaar al-Muneef (133) and al-Albaani
in al-Silsilat al-Saheehah (672).
The scholars interpreted this hadeeth in a number of
ways, the most famous of which was that suggested by
Sufyaan al-Thawri, who said: it means he is the most
evil of the three if he does the same action as his
parents did (i.e., zina or adultery).
This was narrated from 'Aa'ishah, who said that the
Prophet (Peace And Blessings Of Allaah Be Upon Him)
said: "He is the most evil of the three if he does the
same action as his parents did – meaning the
illegitimate child." Although its isnaad is da'eef, it
was interpreted in this manner by the salaf, as stated
above.
This interpretation is supported by the report
narrated by al-Haakim (4/100) – with an isnaad of
which al-Albaani said, "It may be regarded as hasan" –
from 'Aa'ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her), that
the Prophet (Peace And Blessings Of Allaah Be Upon
Him) said: "The illegitimate child does not bear any
part of his parents' burden of sin. 'and no bearer of
burdens shall bear the burden of another' [al-An'aam
6:164 – interpretation of the meaning]." (al-Silsilat
al-Saheehah, 2186)
Some scholars said that this hadeeth is to be
interpreted as meaning that there is some evil in most
illegitimate children because they are created from an
evil nutfah (sperm drop), and usually nothing good is
created from an evil nutfah. If a good soul comes out
of this nutfah then it will enter Paradise. This
hadeeth is to be taken as a general rule to which
there may be exceptions. (See al-Manaar al-Muneef,
133).
Hence Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have
mercy on him) said: "If an illegitimate child believes
and does righteous deeds, he will enter Paradise,
otherwise he will be punished for his deeds just like
anyone else. The punishment is for the deeds, not for
the lineage. Rather the illegitimate child is
condemned because he is expected to do evil deeds, as
often happens. By the same token, good lineages are
regarded as praiseworthy because such people are
expected to do good deeds. But when a person does a
deed, then the reward or punishment is based on that,
and the most noble of people before Allaah are those
who are most pious. (al-Fataawa al-Kubra, 5/83).
It says in Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah: "If an
illegitimate child dies in Islam (as a Muslim), he
will enter Paradise, and his being illegitimate does
not have any effect on that, because that was not due
to his own actions, rather it was the action of
someone else. Allaah says (interpretation of the
meaning):
'and no bearer of burdens shall bear the burden of
another'
[al-An'aam 6:164]
And Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
'Every person is a pledge for that which he has
earned'
[al-Toor 52:21]
And there are other similar verses.
With regard to the words narrated from the Prophet
(Peace And Blessings Of Allaah Be Upon Him), 'No
illegitimate child will enter Paradise,' this hadeeth
is not saheeh. It was mentioned by al-Haafiz Ibn Jawzi
in al-Mawdoo'aat, but it is one of the ahaadeeth that
were fabricated against the Prophet (Peace And
Blessings Of Allaah Be Upon Him). And Allaah is the
Source of strength."
With regard to the ruling on marrying one who is
illegitimate, none of the reputable fuqaha' have
stated that this is haraam. However there was some
difference of opinion among the Hanbalis as to whether
such a person is compatible with a woman of good
lineage. Some of them said that he is compatible with
her, and othesr did not agree with that because that
will be a source of shame for the woman, because he
will be her guardian, and that would also affect her
child. (See al-Mughni, 7/28).
(al-Mawsoo'ah al-Fiqhiyyah, 34/282).
Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) was
asked about a man who married his daughter to a person
who was apparently illegitimate – what was the ruling
on that? He answered as follows:
"If he is Muslim, then the marriage is sound, because
the sin of his mother and the one who committed zina
with her does not rest on him. Allaah says 'and no
bearer of burdens shall bear the burden of another'
[al-An'aam 6:164 – interpretation of the meaning]. And
there is no shame on him because of their action, if
he adheres steadfastly to the religion of Allaah and
develops good characteristics, because Allaah says
'O mankind! We have created you from a male and a
female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you
may know one another. Verily, the most honourable of
you with Allaah is that (believer) who has At-Taqwa
[i.e. he is one of the Muttaqoon (the pious)]. Verily,
Allaah is All-Knowing, All-Aware'
[al-Hujuraat 49:13]
And the Prophet (Peace And Blessings Of Allaah Be Upon
Him) said, when he was asked who is the most noble of
people, 'Those who are most pious.' And he (Peace And
Blessings Of Allaah Be Upon Him) said: 'If a person's
actions make him less worthy than others, his lineage
will not make him more worthy.'"
From Fataawa Islamiyyah, 3/166.
And Allaah knows best.
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
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