Malik related to me from Ibn Shihab that he had heard that in the time of the
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, women were becoming
muslim in their own lands and they did not do hijra while their husbands were
still kafirun although they themselves had become muslim. Among them was the
daughter of al-Walid ibn al-Mughira and she was the wife of Safwan ibn Umayya.
She became muslim on the day of the conquest (of Makka), and her husband, Safwan
ibn Umayya fled from Islam. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, sent Safwan's paternal cousin, Wahb ibn Umayr with the cloak of
the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, as a
safe-conduct for Safwan ibn Umayya, and the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless
him and grant him peace, called him to Islam and asked for him to come to him
and if he was pleased with the matter to accept it. If not he would have a
respite for two months.
When Safwan came to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, with his cloak, he called out to him over the heads of the people,
"Muhammad! Wahb ibn Umayr brought me your cloak and claimed that you had
summoned me to come to you and if I was pleased with the matter, I should accept
it and if not, you would give me a respite for two months. "The Messenger of
Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Come down, Abu Wahb." He
said, "No, by Allah! I will not come down until you make it clear to me." The
Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "You have a
respite of four months." The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace, went out toward Hawazin at Hunayn. He sent to Safwan ibn Umayya to
borrow some equipment and arms that he had. Safwan said, "Willingly or
unwillingly?" He said, "Willingly." Therefore he lent him the equipment and arms
which he had. Then Safwan went out with the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless
him and grant him peace, while he was still a kafir. He was present at the
battles of Hunayn and at-Ta'if while he was still a kafir and his wife was a
muslim. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, did not
separate Safwan and his wife until he had become muslim, and his wife was
settled with him by that marriage.
حَدَّثَنِي مَالِكٌ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، أَنَّهُ بَلَغَهُ أَنَّ نِسَاءً، كُنَّ
فِي عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يُسْلِمْنَ بِأَرْضِهِنَّ وَهُنَّ
غَيْرُ مُهَاجِرَاتٍ وَأَزْوَاجُهُنَّ حِينَ أَسْلَمْنَ كُفَّارٌ مِنْهُنَّ بِنْتُ
الْوَلِيدِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ . وَكَانَتْ تَحْتَ صَفْوَانَ بْنِ أُمَيَّةَ
فَأَسْلَمَتْ يَوْمَ الْفَتْحِ وَهَرَبَ زَوْجُهَا صَفْوَانُ بْنُ أُمَيَّةَ مِنَ
الإِسْلاَمِ فَبَعَثَ إِلَيْهِ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ابْنَ عَمِّهِ
وَهْبَ بْنَ عُمَيْرٍ بِرِدَاءِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَمَانًا
لِصَفْوَانَ بْنِ أُمَيَّةَ وَدَعَاهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم إِلَى
الإِسْلاَمِ وَأَنْ يَقْدَمَ عَلَيْهِ فَإِنْ رَضِيَ أَمْرًا قَبِلَهُ وَإِلاَّ
سَيَّرَهُ شَهْرَيْنِ فَلَمَّا قَدِمَ صَفْوَانُ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله
عليه وسلم بِرِدَائِهِ نَادَاهُ عَلَى رُءُوسِ النَّاسِ فَقَالَ يَا مُحَمَّدُ
إِنَّ هَذَا وَهْبَ بْنَ عُمَيْرٍ جَاءَنِي بِرِدَائِكَ وَزَعَمَ أَنَّكَ
دَعَوْتَنِي إِلَى الْقُدُومِ عَلَيْكَ فَإِنْ رَضِيتُ أَمْرًا قَبِلْتُهُ وَإِلاَّ
سَيَّرْتَنِي شَهْرَيْنِ . فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم "
انْزِلْ أَبَا وَهْبٍ " . فَقَالَ لاَ وَاللَّهِ لاَ أَنْزِلُ حَتَّى تُبَيِّنَ
لِي . فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " بَلْ لَكَ تَسِيرُ
أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ " . فَخَرَجَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قِبَلَ
هَوَازِنَ بِحُنَيْنٍ . فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَى صَفْوَانَ بْنِ أُمَيَّةَ يَسْتَعِيرُهُ
أَدَاةً وَسِلاَحًا عِنْدَهُ فَقَالَ صَفْوَانُ أَطَوْعًا أَمْ كَرْهًا فَقَالَ "
بَلْ طَوْعًا " . فَأَعَارَهُ الأَدَاةَ وَالسِّلاَحَ الَّتِي عِنْدَهُ ثُمَّ
خَرَجَ صَفْوَانُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَهُوَ كَافِرٌ فَشَهِدَ
حُنَيْنًا وَالطَّائِفَ وَهُوَ كَافِرٌ وَامْرَأَتُهُ مُسْلِمَةٌ وَلَمْ يُفَرِّقْ
رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَ امْرَأَتِهِ حَتَّى أَسْلَمَ
صَفْوَانُ وَاسْتَقَرَّتْ عِنْدَهُ امْرَأَتُهُ بِذَلِكَ النِّكَاحِ . الحديث Reference : Muwatta' Malik مرجع : موطأ مالك
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مرجع الترجمة على الإنترنت : Book 28 الكتاب, Hadith 44 الحديث | In-book reference مرجع التصنيف : 28 الكتاب, Hadith 1139 الحديث
